W has always been the golden boy, H just had some positive yrs and a huge charisma in his favor. In their 20’s W looked doomed doing things bc it’s tradition and playing a bored married life before time, while H was the youthful passionate about everything he was involved. In my teens I became fan of the shy and mature teen W, but got annoyed with his “taking time” for this and that and tought it was excuses, but now looking at his steady life seems he knew what was the right thing to do.