In any family, you have someone who is crazy, addicted, just “off,” but you don’t give them the keys to the castle along with family PR power and unlimited funds. Why go to all this fuss over Harry’s girlfriend/wife? Why have they given H/M so much control this far? That trend might change later, but Kate had to jump through major hoops for years. Even Sophie had to, Jack has been dating E for 7ish years. Why is everyone caving to Harry?

anonymoushouseplantfan:

One, I think they are afraid that he will turn full Diana and start doing interview trashing the BRF. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that he was doing interviews talking about how they made him walk behind the coffin, Will didn’t take care of him at Eton, and no one wants to be a royal in February/March when he was trying to sell Meghan to the BRF.

I get a lot of anons talking about how Meghan has dirt on the BRF, but I think the one with the real dirt on the BRF, and an amazing platform to spread it, is Harry.

Second, I think Harry has serious issues that make him borderline unmarriageable. Yes, the press attention and mind-numbingly boring royal workload are part of it, but there are likely other personal issues. A lot of people talked about how William had to settle for Kate because “there was no one else.” I think that is actually true about Harry. They’ve been trying for years to get someone decent to step up with no luck. I think Harry told them that this was his only chance and they couldn’t take it away from him.