The Harkles don’t understand that if you choose your family over the A-list, it means you don’t need the A list. You are so far above it, you can reject the A list. It means I don’t need you, I’d rather have my mailman. That’s superior! If you are desperately trying to rope in A listers,you have shown your ass. It’s like that old Churchill saying, we know who you are, now we’re just talking price.