I doubt the RF or Harry think her haplessness is adorable. And given it is just a month after the tacky wedding and Harry has given up the pretense that suggests to me that he already had lost the glow before the wedding. IMHO she cornered him with the race thing and the I gave up my job for you. And the predicate resentment over that has appeared. It will get worse. The trip to IRE will drive him up the wall.