I understand why Harry makes insane decisions. The British upper class are insane. They mentally abuse their sons and glorify a culture of silence: if you speak out you’re “not one of us.” These abused boys become leaders in Britains politics, media and culture who continue the abuse because they think it made them tough. They smugly look down on people who show emotion or who want to stop the abuse. I’m glad Will married “middle class” Kate and got away a bit from that world