In any family, you have someone who is crazy, addicted, just “off,” but you don’t give them the keys to the castle along with family PR power and unlimited funds. Why go to all this fuss over Harry’s girlfriend/wife? Why have they given H/M so much control this far? That trend might change later, but Kate had to jump through major hoops for years. Even Sophie had to, Jack has been dating E for 7ish years. Why is everyone caving to Harry?

anonymoushouseplantfan:

One, I think they are afraid that he will turn full Diana and start doing interview trashing the BRF. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that he was doing interviews talking about how they made him walk behind the coffin, Will didn’t take care of him at Eton, and no one wants to be a royal in February/March when he was trying to sell Meghan to the BRF.

I get a lot of anons talking about how Meghan has dirt on the BRF, but I think the one with the real dirt on the BRF, and an amazing platform to spread it, is Harry.

Second, I think Harry has serious issues that make him borderline unmarriageable. Yes, the press attention and mind-numbingly boring royal workload are part of it, but there are likely other personal issues. A lot of people talked about how William had to settle for Kate because “there was no one else.” I think that is actually true about Harry. They’ve been trying for years to get someone decent to step up with no luck. I think Harry told them that this was his only chance and they couldn’t take it away from him.

royal-confessions:

“The wedding was very well done and beautiful but I am really confused by some of the celeb attendees there. “Suits” cast, Beckhams, those I get, but Serena Williams, Oprah & the Clooneys too? I very much doubt they are close friends or good friends at all with those. “Invite close friends only” my ass. Their weding, their guest list – but I wish the KP didn’t release such contradictory statement.“ – Submitted by Anonymous

nycrealroyal:

What if I tell you…

The Clooneys weren’t invited for the second reception at Frogmore, their name wasn’t on the list. And they had to wait outside Frogmore for almost 15 minutes…the problem were the pics that were published….Since it happened…Bubly, Poply, Poople thought about a way to fix, because someone read the website and saw the pics. So Meghan decided to dance with him and Harry thought it would be a great idea to ask Kate to also do it. #ThanksAL

Thanks for answering my ask! You said “he’ll hopefully see her for who she is” but how couldn’t he already?! Why did he break up with her in December of 2016? Why didn’t they remain broken up? Is this a case where his loneliness and desire to have what William and even Charles has taint his feelings for Meghan as “love” when it’s lust and loneliness?

nycrealroyal:

Thanks for answering my ask! You said “he’ll hopefully see her for who she is” but how couldn’t he already?! –> Only God and his stupid father knows. She took pics from a secured area at KP and was about to publish online (the one thatvrelease this information was me), he saw and they broke up. Oh, darling…She called him excessively to apologize, he accepted/stalked. Can be loneliness and also lack of focus, work and so on. 😘

I hope you can answer these questions. How can PH/MM go through fertility treatments/IVF if they are (allegedly) using drugs? Won’t any kind of (illegal) drugs make it difficult to conceive? Really MM would have to remain sober for at least nine months! Also, why do you think MM will bolt? Imo, she will never have a better life that what she has now. As the wife of the 6th (5th) in line to the throne she wouldn’t get a huge divorce settlement (would she?). Great blog, Thank you.

nycrealroyal:

I hope you can answer these questions. How can PH/MM go through fertility treatments/IVF if they are (allegedly) using drugs? –> They aren’t frequent users. I don’t have a specific knowledge about, but I presume it does, since a drug acts on your central nervous system, and this net (CND) regulates your entire body. She was yripping with and that dress last night. Because she was drunk as a cow 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also, why do you think MM will bolt? Imo, she will never have a better life that what she has now. As the wife of the 6th (5th) in line to the throne she wouldn’t get a huge divorce settlement (would she?). –> She is a fame whore, but I doubt she will please (did you realize that her career are only tips in tiny movies and/or movies that you never heard about? And deal with the bad press and scrutiny. She fucked io twice with HM (‘something borrowed’ gate and ‘curtsey’ gate) and that is something that the journos will make sure that she learns. 😘😘😘😘

You are the absolute tits 😘💋😍 I love that you give us the scoop on what’s happening behind the scenes. Why do you suppose this wedding and engagement was so rushed? They did long distance and must’ve only barely known each other. Idk their vibe is so weird and not natural. Shame he’s blind. What’s he like in real life? Does he deserve a hustler like Meghan? Is it true she’s an escort and he paid her for sex like the other blogs say?

nycrealroyal:

You are the absolute tits 😘💋😍 –> Tits??? 😱😱😱 I love that you give us the scoop on what’s happening behind the scenes. Why do you suppose this wedding and engagement was so rushed? –> Harry and his desperation. Now, he will be desperate for it to work, then for babies, then for this and that. Agreed. Although, Harry is in love. Yeah! 🤣🤣🤣 What’s he like in real life? –> If you thought only positively about him, you might start to rethink. 🤣🤣🤣 He is an asshole! He was looking for one, he found it. Yes. 😘

Can M have private PR, lawyers, etc after she is married? Wouldn’t the royals want to control all messages since she joined the firm? I still don’t understand why Charles and Will allowed her to control KP twitter/press. That’s nuts. I assumed RF was run like a hierarchical family business, so H would not be calling any shots much less M. So far, that has not been the case.

nycrealroyal:

Can M have private PR –> No. Yes. They all do. Oh, they do. Don’t worry 🤣🤣 I still don’t understand why Charles and Will allowed her to control KP twitter/press. –> Maybe because that dumnator got the password. Four palaces: BP, CH, St James and KP. All different staff. The last three are under BP, but side by side. Now, at least for a time of period, KP will go back to be under CH. When it will be effected? When big shots from KP start to leave. Fox is one and there are two more. These two weren’t even invited for the wedding. 😘

anonymoushouseplantfan:

tragic


Thanks for sending this in! I can just imagine the Royal staff scrambling to find stands and vessels that would make this crap cake look like something decent. 

I’m still having a hard time wrapping my head around the idea that this is supposed to be a royal wedding cake. Oh, well, I guess it fits them to a “t.”

Obviously there will be no traditional wedding cake at any of their christenings. 

Never forget!

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Submitted:

anonymoushouseplantfan:

What this wedding shows is that the royal family is open for business, but not in a great way. It’s widely known that it’s difficult to get access to the BRF, whether you’re a British designer or a celeb hoping to mix with them at an event. I use to work in the celeb branding/events industry in London and there’s no way any kind of money would’ve got you into W & K’s wedding.

Large charity donations by a mega celeb + repositioning M & H’s brand as international, well connected humanitarians = win win for both parties. I love a good wedding, but this wedding reeks of tack and vulgarity. I thought that the fake floral arch was actually quite beautiful but couldn’t help thinking that it was there as a ‘step and repeat’ backdrop for celeb arrivals!

This is not modernising the monarchy. Mark my words, there’ll be plenty of pay-to-play scandals to come.


THIS.

A lot of people suspected that money could buy you access, but it had to be A LOT OF MONEY and it provided very little access and you had to be super discreet about it. 

Now they are merching cupcakes and private clubs and cars and middle-market Canadian jewelry and it’s A LOT more obvious. They did a freaking Jaguar ad!!!! Plus the guest list and seating placement, of course.

And, yes, it was deliciously vulgar. The whole point of the BRF is that they are supposed to be above tacky product placements and celebrity back-scratching. Harry and Meghan, however, are definitely not above any of that crap.

I find it ironic that a girl that went to private schools and basically a private university and was in a sorority known by many as “Visa Visa MasterCard” because of its trust fund kids and snobby girls has sold herself as little orphan Annie to the RF & now the world. Not only that, but most sorority girls I know find friends for life in those houses. Yet she appears not to have any friends prior to life in Toronto?

anonymoushouseplantfan:

She ditched everyone.

If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don’t. It’s not that complicated. Love, in most cases, betrays the one feeling it. Don’t waste moments waiting and wondering. Don’t throw away your time dreaming of someone that doesn’t want you. No one is that amazing, certainly not the one who would pass you up.

Donna Lynn Hope (via quotemadness)

Loved your recap! I noticed how things got pulled back together after PC and Cams returned from Greece. Things were really sliding off the rails at MM, er I mean, KP PR, but right after they got back, BRF got back to some semblance of being on-brand. Plus, the press got threatened/coerced into nothing but praise. I can’t even look at the DM page now. Barf.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Yep, that’s what we’ve seen since the engagement announcement. The hot messes dig themselves into a hole and then the BRF swoops in and gives her a royal event to fix it. I think that’s going to be the way of things for a while.

Isn’t she a two time divorcee. This is her third marriage. So essentially isn’t this marriage illegal and against the law. Thanks NYC! ♥️

Actually, I don’t think her relationship & living together with Cory meets the standard for common-law marriage in Ontario. Canada leaves it up to provincial jurisdiction. 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage#Ontario

nycrealroyal:

Like I said before, I need to check the British law. Don’t forget Cory, she was in a civil union according to the canadian law. 😘😘

In Ontario, the Ontario Family Law Act specifically recognizes common-law spouses in section 29, dealing with spousal support issues; the requirements are living together continuously for no less than three years[13] or having a child in common and having “cohabited in a relationship of some permanence”. The three years must be continuous, although a breakup of a few days during the period will not affect a person’s status as common law.

http://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/common-law-unions-in-canada/

So Cory and Megs didn’t meet the three-year requirement in Ontario, and Toronto is in Ontario.

A simple google search will tell you that Meghan is worth 5 million dollars on her own. She had this little thing called a job before she met Harry and made a lot of money

motherofbulldogs:

I don’t disagree with you that a figure like that might come up in a google search. However, those celebrity net worth figures tend to be highly speculative and generally based on gross – instead of net – income. Honestly, I’d be surprised if she were worth more than $1M on paper before marrying Harry. She always lived in a modest rented home in Toronto, which, to me, is evidence against her having a seven-figure net worth.

nycrealroyal:

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMG! FFS!! Pizza delivery and beer pong!!

Why even have chefs on staff for this mess?

adams-amys:

Wakanda will no longer watch from the shadows. We can not. We must not. We will work to be an example of how we, as brothers and sisters on this earth, should treat each other. Now, more than ever, the illusions of division threaten our very existence. We all know the truth: more connects us than separates us. But in times of crisis the wise build bridges, while the foolish build barriers. We must find a way to look after one another, as if we were one single tribe.

Black Panther (2018) dir. Ryan Coogler

W and Kate sitting arrangements

anonymoushouseplantfan:

wanted to put a picture but did not work. At w and k wedding, family and Friends got thé best Seats. How do you justify putting Oprah and clooneys etc before your mother’s brother and sister. Especially when you have no qualms using said mother for your pr. Diana would be mortified at thé end of thé day she was still an aristo what they did IS so rude. 


Thanks for sending this in!

The Cambridge wedding was notable precisely because you had commoners sitting somewhat as equals with the royal family. That’s why it got so much praise as a family wedding.

The Sussex wedding is notable because the friends and family were all superseded by celeb guests. It was very Hollywood. That’s Meg’s environment. She ditched her normal family and friends for the C-list celeb circle of Suits in 2011 and now she’s ditching her C-list celeb circle for an A-list celeb circle.

That’s the Hollywood game.

Hah, loved your round-up! Did you read that he also said, “I’m shitting it” right after the “you look amazing, I’ve missed you” sop? Classy Prince Henry of Wales, Duke of Sussex, Earl of Dumbarton Baron Kilkeel. Instead of some Royal grace rubbing off on the one marrying in, the HW Z-list reality star is rubbing off- heck, being doused all over – the born royal. Who’s lived his entire life with ceremonial protocol. Can’t BELIEVE she just said, “Thanks,” AGAIN?! LOL. Btw Part 1/2

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Part 2/2 …Did you notice how QUIET it has been around her Coat of Arms? Haha, Daddy’s little escapade robbed her of that little treasure. Bet she held her breath until she turned blue… er.. ish, and Harry gifted her that aquamarine ring instead. Bottom line though: Meghan Markle’s Coat of Arms got cancelled. Boom. I’m baffled why nobody picked up on the radio silence on the coat of arms thing, it would have been plastered all over. Glad to have you back btw! 🙂


Yep, looks like no one got a coat of arms.

I always want to say Harry came across as very fake. The “I missed you” moment and the “I hope Meghan is okay” Please, spare me. This man has been in front of cameras his whole life. He knew people would see these comments and go nuts. Everything this man does is for show. He’s played the world and now he’s played you. He’s in love – yep, in love with feeling important & not like a useless spare. Ph and Mm are both fake. The difference is he can actually act.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

This is very likely.

Why “Burnout” Is Okay – The Creativity Cycle

wordsnstuff:

– One of the biggest fears writers face is burnout, or “writer’s block”. However, there’s always a way to look at the positives in a situation. Please take the following to heart: Not actively creating is okay, as long as you continue to your goals in another way.

Do not ever beat yourself up over not having the momentum to keep creating actively, 24/7. You need days where you relax and research and find inspiration. It’s not laziness. It’s an important part of the creative process. There’s a fabulous visual by emcheeseman on Twitter that was made for artists and explains this really well.

image

The Three Stages Of The Creativity Cycle

There are three stages to the creativity cycle; Action, The Middle, and Recovery. 

The Middle Ground

If you’re coming down from the action stage, you’re not quite burnt out, but you’re also not as full of creative energy as you might have been last week. Your creations aren’t popping out as quickly and you’re finding that you take more breaks, do less in one sitting, and would rather take it slow and figure out some world building for upcoming scenes or write some experimental blurbs, rather than keep writing at full speed.

Or, if you’re coming out of the recovery stage, you’re not at 100% yet, but you have the motivation to do something, such as the activities I used as examples above.

During The Action Stage

You’re actively creating. You’re, how one would say, on a roll. Your visions and ideas are coming to life and you’re using all of your energy to create, rather than research or recharge. You should be using the momentum you’ve built up in the middle ground to write, and write a lot.

The Recovery Stage

You have had enough of writing for hours and hours at a time and you need some rest. Your brain is tired and you’re finding it more difficult to get excited about your project. It’s time to let yourself breathe. Give yourself time to do absolutely nothing, distance yourself from your project, and take in some material to help you get inspired again. 

You need to input content into your head. Read, watch tv shows, watch movies, go out in the world, try new things, have new experiences, visit new places, etc. This is super important to this stage. If you don’t consume other work or things that will help you generate ideas once you have the energy again, you will not bounce back to the high energy production phase you hope to be on again. 

So What?

Just remember that creativity, no matter what art form you practice, is a cycle that you can’t stop in one place. Nobody can always be in a place where they can happily create every single day without faltering. You’re human, you’re an artist, and you need to accept that there are multiple ways you can work toward your goal, even when you’re “burnt out”. It’s all part of the process.

Happy writing!


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rachelmarkle:

April 29th 2011, the Duchess of Cambridge wearing Alexander McQueen for her evening wedding reception at Buckingham Palace | May 19th, 2018 the Duchess of Sussex wearing Stella McCartney for her evening wedding reception at Frogmore House

At least Kate’s isn’t boringly basic…

motherofbulldogs:

rachelmarkle:

The Duchess of Cambridge departing from Westminster Abbey in a bespoke Sarah Burton from Alexander McQueen gown and the Duchess of Sussex departing seven years later from St. George’s Chapel in a bespoke Clare Waight Keller from Givenchy

gown

Meghan is stupid. Her wedding dress will ultimately go down as boxy and potentially ill-fitting. The exquisite tailoring on Kate’s McQueen dress is more evident in comparison.

Moreover, choosing a French label instead of a British or Commonwealth one? Absolute PR fail. They keep trying to push the designer’s name Clare Waight Keller), but it’s who Waight Keller works for and who made it that is official. No one says Kate’s dress was a Sarah Burton dress!

Do we know why the minor royals weren’t invited? Amelia, Frederick, etc… I’m surprised the Queen agreed to that

duchessofostergotlands:

The guest list was very much Meghan and Harry’s choice- same with william and kate when it came to family and friends- although I would put this one solely at Harry’s feet as it’s not her responsibility to invite his family. I honestly have no idea why they weren’t invited. They seem as surprised as anyone else. I’d be really hurt if I was the Gloucesters or Kents, had given my entire life to serve the monarchy, and my children who grew up with the boys weren’t invited but people they’ve met twice were. I get that they should be allowed a lot of control over their wedding guest list but he is a prince and it was partly taxpayer funded- costing more than any wedding in a long time- so I think that not recognising the families of lifelong public servants and instead inviting almost strangers is kind of cold of Harry.

Poor lose doctors as wealthy gain them, new figures reveal

noislandofdreams:

Fewer GPs are choosing to work in poorer areas but more are joining surgeries that look after wealthier populations, new official figures reveal.

The exodus, uncovered by Labour MP Frank Field, is exacerbating the existing “under-doctoring” of deprived populations – the lack of family doctors in places where poorer people live.

Experts said the widening divide between rich and poor areas in GP numbers – which is one of England’s starkest health inequalities – would force the least well-off to wait longer for an appointment, even though they are generally sicker and die earlier than the rest of the population.

“A decade ago the country was beginning to make some serious inroads into the under-doctoring of the poorest areas. What these grim figures show is that in recent years that progress has not only stalled, but actually gone into reverse,” Field told the Observer.

“The most worrying trend here is the number of GPs ceasing to serve people towards the bottom of the pile, while at the same time people in the wealthiest areas have benefited from an even better service. Vulnerable people are having to suffer in silence without being able to see a GP.

“Here’s another example of everything going in the wrong direction if our goal is to equalise health opportunities and outcomes. It is a new appalling face of inequality in modern Britain.”

There were 8,207 GPs working in areas containing the most deprived quintile of the population in England in 2008. But by last year that number had fallen to 7,696 – a drop of 511 – according to the response to a written parliamentary question Field asked recently.

But over the same decade the number of family doctors working in the most prosperous fifth of the population increased from 4,058 to 4,192 – a rise of 134, public health minister Steve Brine told Field.

Fuck keeping affluent people alive, help us instead

This is similar to the US.

Poor lose doctors as wealthy gain them, new figures reveal