Of course Kate’s tough as nails. You aren’t a punching bag for the British press for 15 yrs (with no public meltdowns) unless you’re steely as they come. I think because Kate isn’t a social butterfly amongst the aristos, and because William seems to be the dominant partner people think she’s meek and mousey. But it’s really more that she reads people well, and knows most of those people aren’t her real friends, and while she gives guidance to Will, she knows it’s his own future, and his family.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Very likely.

I checked twitter & the Queen was pictured going to church on the 30th. I wonder if we will get a CYA photo op of the Dumbshits & the Queen going to church later in August. The Cambs are coming back from Mustique to attend the wedding on saturday, so I imagine W&K are having to do another CYA photo op for the duchess dumbass. Then will probably head to amner hall until September

That seems to be the speculation I’m seeing. I would hope that W&K would be smart enough to start distancing themselves from this shit show. There is no reason for them to continue to bail out Harry. It’s a waste of their time and pr capital. 

Yes Kate got help long before the announcement of the engagement and if Harry played by the rules his wife would have gotten the same. The help was more about theory and concepts. Markle is 1) not interested 2)won’t take advice and 3) has her own agenda. This is why Kate’s wedding planning was so detailed and based on the theme of craftsmanship – she had been well oriented prior. She knew what was expected. MM don’t care what they expect.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Very likely, but I think it’s also that Kate has a genuine appreciation for what the BRF stands for and Meghan doesn’t. Kate appreciates British heritage and style and the traditions and pageantry of the BRF. That’s why she gets the details right. 

Meghan only cares about the press coverage and the clothes.

For the wimbledon bingo! Inappropriate giggling, white dress- Ralph Lauren, Bald spots, messy curls, grabs Kate, Kate faces, fake tan.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

God, Meghan looks awful. The hair’s unbrushed again. 

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/6767363/meghan-markle-kate-middleton-serena-williams-wimbledon-ladies-final/

Did I post the anon who was concerned about Kate being associated with Meghan’s trainwreck? I don’t remember. I meant to comment that I thought the contrast actually benefited Kate. Today’s engagement is a perfect example. Meghan looks awful and Kate looks amazing.

There’s a gif circulating where the W President’s wife (sitting besides M) is bypassing M and talking to Catherine. And M’s just staring ahead. Lol. Too funny!

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Scobie has the video. He describes it as M and C “having a chat” and then the camera pans out and you realize that C is talking to the president’s wife and Meghan is just self-consciously pretending to be part of the convo. It’s hilarious.

https://twitter.com/scobie/status/1018134661451698176

How do the Cambridges compare?

duchessofostergotlands:

duchessofostergotlands:

So I hate to do the whole “Kate vs Diana” thing but a lot of people in this fandom hold Diana up as a perfect royal so I thought it would be interesting to compare the number of engagements they were doing in the year they gave birth to their second child. 

The total number of engagements is obviously lower due to the fact they were pregnant, giving birth, and on maternity leave. 

In 2015, the year of Princess Charlotte’s birth, the Duchess of Cambridge carried out 62 engagements

In 1984, the year of Prince Harry’s birth, Princess Diana carried out 52 engagements (x) 

In 2015, Prince William carried out 122 engagements. In 1984 Princes Charles carried out 93 engagements (x). 

It’s up to you to decide what that means for you but it’s interesting to be able to compare the numbers. Thoughts?

Thought I’d bring this back given recent conversation

i don’t know who annoys me the most, mm/haz or her sugars. they are ignorants as they come, but the thing is they refuse to aknowledge facts. now they say kate is going to wimbledon just for the pics and she was never ‘interested’ in tenis before mm (relation to serena). at least if you (them) are going to criticize do your freaking research. kate is not only wimbledon patron, but loves and tennis and always goes to see the matches, even when she was single. i swear, this people is a joke.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

I saw those posts! LOLOLOLOL, Kate has been following tennis forever. Her family is hardcore Federer fandom and she has several tennis patronages.

It’s funny how we went from “Lazy Kate only cares about Wimbledon and Sir Ben” to “Kate doesn’t care about tennis” in months.

Oh heck yes getting involved in the activities is part of the job! But for some reason MM thinks this is just a “lets play dress up” job when it isnt. You dont get to pick and choose the events you go to. Royals are asked to attend. But if she chooses to only attend events where she doesnt have to do anything but dress up & pose for pics, people will tire of her rather quickly. I mean Kate is doing cupcake decorating blindfolded, played volleyball IN WEDGES, played field hockey in HEELS

anonymoushouseplantfan:

She’s just going to show up and pose.

This is why Kate is awesome.

Two things: wagging a finger at a child is considered aggressive (I volunteer in a children’s hospital and we had basic etiquette training). You’re meant to do the stop motion with your full hand. It’s firm but not upsetting. Before meeting kids Harry should’ve had the same basic training. 2nd: A drag queen said the royals never blink not even when he went in drag to the palace. Posh Brits take everything in stride. K is doing that with MM. MM is a sideshow but K will just stay calm and carry on

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Yep, Kate will be her normal self.

Submitted:

anonymoushouseplantfan:

“I’d say the right comparison is Kate’s first year, not this year. ” – Heck, they may as well compare to the total of all Kate’s 7 years. The end result might be either “almost the same” or even “slightly over”.  Just a fast google search, all numbers are from  tabs articls in thousands  £

2017-119K,

https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/style/896006/kate-middleton-pictures-news-latest-clothes-wardrobe-cost

2016 -174K,

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4048352/How-Kate-sported-designer-clothes-worth-170-000-year.html

2015-43K –  the same article as about 2016

2014- could not find

2013 – could not find

June-Dec 2012 – could not find

May 2011-June 2012-105K

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2165211/Kate-Middletons-105k-wardrobe-Duchess-Cambridge-worth-penny-says-LIZ-JONES.html

I think May2011-Dec2011 was about 55K, but can’t find an article.

What we have so far ca. 500K. The missing 2 years and a half could be max 200K. Her totals for 7 years will be ca. 700K.

I’m afraid MM has already spent that. And wait till the end of the year. 


Thanks for sending this in. I can’t find those years either. Funny because I could have sworn that they did this every single year. BTW, Kate’s entire Australia tour was 55k and I think they were counting repeats. 

https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/style/472363/Kate-Middleton-spends-55-000-on-her-wardrobe-for-royal-tour-of-Australia-and-New-Zealand

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anonymoushouseplantfan:

Regarding Kate looking so genuinely happy—I think the longer maternity leave combined with the constant drama with Meghan has provided a true reprieve for her. For the first time in over a decade, the intense pressure and glaring spotlight has shifted off of her.
And IMO, that’s how you truly know she’s not in this for the hype, celebrity, etc. as she is so content and thriving away from all of that. She does her duty, but she’d be just as happy living a very comfortable, quiet life at Amner forever. They’ve said similar things about HM as well—that she would have been happy to have been a military wife and then a quiet, country housewife.
When you look at it that way, the comparison to Meghan’s desires, goals, etc are strikingly clear.


Thanks for sending this in! Yep, she’s obviously super happy right now.

george’s so cute. i love that he’s a very gentle soul. bless him for not wanting to play football because he doesn’t want to hurt people. and it is so nice to see w&k embrace his gentleness- i know a lot of parents who wouldn’t do that and would tell their kids to ‘toughen up’.

duchessofostergotlands:

They both talk a lot in public about children’s health and wellbeing and I love that they actually walk the walk. They chose a school specifically because it prioritises emotional support, not because it’s traditional. They seem to respect George’s space and they encourage the things he likes. I think it’s wonderful to see how far things have come since Charles’s childhood 

Celebitchy has an article on M today. She’s making excuses for the cost of her clothes.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

LOL, it’s “racist” to think that it’s too much money. And they bring up Kate’s clothes too. Dude, THE WHOLE POINT is that Meghan is spending ten times Kate’s yearly budged in six months, THAT’S THE WHOLE POINT.

Kate was famously wearing Reiss during her first year–heck, she recycled her engagement dress during the Canada tour–and she was STILL criticized for spending too much money. Kate was absolutely dragged for that 50k bill and it was a small fraction of what Meghan has spent. 

And let’s not even mention that Meghan looks like absolute crap in her expensive couture. Her best looks so far have been the Halo dress, the blue off-the-rack Roland Mouret, and the black capris at polo this weekend. According to Katie Nicholls, Megs is now in the market for a stylist. That means she knows she’s royally fucking up. LOL, this is now the fifth person they’ve brought in to help. 

https://www.celebitchy.com/583255/does_duchess_meghan_need_the_couture_clothes_to_accentuate_her_new_power/

We see William and Catherine interacting at polo, Catherine having a fun time with others and kids. Catherine blowing flying kisses at William, cheering for his team. And for h&m, forget everything else, we didn’t even see them together in one frame. Hahaha!

anonymoushouseplantfan:

I love that Meghan is setting up these copycat photoshoots because the contrasts are genius. Kate with her family and friends watching the game being totally normal in cheap clothes, and Meghan posing with celebs in the VIP area in something that’s five times as expensive and looks ten times worse.

Has Kate gone to Wimbledon every year? Any year she missed?

duchessofostergotlands:

The only year she missed was 2013 because it was two weeks before George was born. 

In 2011 she watched Andy Murray: 

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In 2012 she and William watched Andy Murray and Roger Federer in separate games and then her and Pippa watched Andy Murray in the final 

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She didn’t go in 2013 because she was on maternity leave. 

In 2014 she watched Andy Murray and then the final with Roger Federer and Novak Djokovic 

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In 2015 she and William watched Andy Murray again 

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In 2016 she watched Serena Williams and then Andy Murray in the final  

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And in 2017 she watched Andy Murray and then watched Federer in the final 

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Was it like that with Kate.. like was she this invisible after her marriage? Were all her appearances documented like crazy for days? It seems like with markle the press waits with baited breath for her next engagement and the days that shes not out its just endless articles on her nonsense.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Do you mean “visible” instead of “invisible”? Because Will and Kate were EVERYWHERE in 2011.

My recollection of the Cambridge’s first year is that they would disappear for weeks and then we’d get some ridiculously high-profile huge-press event like meeting the Obamas or touring the US or Kate having a solo gala. The DM has a summary of their first year.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2135065/Kate-Middleton-Prince-Williams-year-marriage-looked-on.html 

There was a ton of coverage of everything they did (including mundane stuff like shopping or talking walks), and they were credited with re-invigorating the monarchy.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/prince-william-kate-middleton-year-marriage-reinvigorated-fading-luster-royals-article-1.1065498

The Canada tour had so much coverage that even the reporter were complaining.

http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/07/05/royal-rivalry-prince-william-trounces-kate-in-canadian-dragon-boat-race/

I remember there was a lot of curiosity about their personal lives–honeymoon, house, shopping, Lupo, date nights, relationship with the Middletons, Kate’s shopping trips to London. Also, Kate’s fashion had a ton of coverage. The beige Reiss dress she wore to meet the Obamas, in particular, was a sensation.

Even their first anniversary dinner was a source of huge speculation.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2137129/Kate-Pippa-Middleton-attend-friends-big-day-year-royal-wedding.html

The main difference I see between the way the couples are/were covered by the press is that with Will and Kate there was HUGE interest in their interactions and private life. Everyone wanted to know what the cottage looked like, how they interacted with each other, what Kate was cooking, what the dog’s name was, etc… There was also a ton of interest in Kate’s clothes, organic interest and not just People mag trying to sell beach cover-ups.

With the Slutsexes, there’s more interest in how Meghan is handling the royal protocol than anything else. The “fish out of water” aspect of it is taking over. Will and Kate didn’t have that kind of coverage, mainly because Kate had been part of “The Windsor Show” for so long that her official intro was seamless. 

Looking back the Cambridge’s first year, what strikes me is how “fresh” their appearances were–with the Obamas at the palace, in the Canadian wilderness, playing polo in LA, playing with kids. They really looked like a young couple who were having fun and putting a new spin on what it meant to be royal. In contrast, Meghan in her off-color pantyhose and 80s Diana outfits is already looking like a Madame Tussaud’s wax figure. Actually, the official was figure looks younger than Meghan right now.

antiquehistoryliterature:

HRH The Duchess of Cambridge’s Wedding Dress and accesories

Designed by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen, the wedding dress (The ivory gown of white satin gazar with overall lace applique work with floral detail, the full skirt with box pleats, the back leading to a 9ft train. The lace bodice with V-neck line and long sleeves. The lace detail incorporating the rose, thistle, daffodil and shamrock) is on display alongside the magnificent Cartier ‘Halo’ tiara (A diamond ‘halo’ tiara formed as a band of 16 graduated scrolls, set with 739 brilliants and 149 baton diamonds, each scroll divided by a graduated brilliant and with a large brilliant at the centre; original red leather box, with later Garrards label.) lent by The Queen to The Duchess on her wedding day; The Duchess’s wedding shoes, hand-made by the team at Alexander McQueen (ivory shoes with lace embroidery); the diamond earrings commissioned by the Middleton family as a personal gift to the bride from her parents; a replica of the bridal bouquet(A wedding bouquet of lilly of the valley, hyacinth, sweet william, myrtle and ivory) and a veil made of layers of ivory silk-tulle with a trim of hand-embroidered flowers.

Did people complain about Diana’s clothes or tally everything up when she was Princess of Wales? Was just reading on the Vogue website that in today’s dollars she spent 10 x more than Kate per month. When I google her princess days, she always looked like a (literal) million dollars. If people didn’t mind was it because she WAS P o Wales, not wife of the 3d in line, and because she was young?

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Oh, no, people freaked. There was no way of tallying because almost all her clothes were custom made, but there was a lot of controversy at first. People were used to royals who wore very uniform-looking clothes and reused things over and over again and here was Di with designer this and that, and hardly ever recycling anything. Eventually, she started re-using and altering clothes.

But Di spent tons of money. And there were no discounts back then. Charles paid for everything. The amounts didn’t really come out until after the divorce, though. This is from Diana, The Last Word.

I don’t think that’s 10X what Kate spends, though. I think it comes out to about the same when you do all the conversions.

OMG, I just pulled the old articles from Kate’s first year when people were freaking out that she spent $54k in six months. That’s less money than a pair of Meghan’s earrings!!!!

https://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/06/25/kate-middleton-54000-clothing-budget-pretty-pittance-or-royal-pain/#621a70e4744c

I found a historical UK inflation calculator. Basically, £1 in 1994 equals £1.94 in 2018. So, Diana’s £160,000 in 1994 would be the equivalent of £310,400 today. 

anonymoushouseplantfan:

So let me get this straight:

In KATE’s first six months as a married woman, her total spending amounted to £40’500 ($54’000). That’s the woman married to the 3rd in line to be king. And was doing engagements. This included her clothes. Okay.

In MEGHAN’s first six months, not as wife, but as a fiancée +1 day as wife to the 6th in line, she has amassed a whopping £514’330 ($687’000) in JEWELLERY ALONE. And this is only counting her “big pieces”. Throughout the six months we’ve seen her wearing new pieces stacked and mismatched adding up to thousands per time.

Now… I mean…

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/d8/1c/95/d81c9543afe02c67bc201b4e1b9168f2.jpg

But…

http://www.samlouiemft.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/gold-digger-magnet.jpg

(X,X)


Thanks for sending this in! Well, IT IS smart. Can’t deny that.

Regarding Kate’s coat of arms impaled with William’s (not the joint one). What animal is that? And why did Kate choose that animal? I tried searching through Google but I couldn’t find the answer.

duchessofostergotlands:

Hello anon 🙂 Her supporter is a deer, a white hind. The press release at the time said: “The Supporter assigned to The Duchess of Cambridge is a white hind, which has had continuing Royal connections in England since the 14th Century… The white hind has had a long tradition of connections to the Royal Family in England since the fourteenth century. It was the Badge of Joan of Kent (c. 1328-1385), Princess of Wales, better known as the Fair Maid of Kent.   In 1467 an inventory of ornaments and relics at Westminster Abbey included a red altar-cloth and frontal with gold lions and white hinds for the altar of King Henry V. In 1529 King Henry VIII had three hinds carved amongst the eighteen beasts at Hampton Court. The white hind contrasts with the white hart, the favourite Badge of the Fair Maid of Kent’s son Richard II. The hart or stag is the male red deer and the hind the female. A hind is a forest dweller and stands well next to a Shield where acorns are the principal feature.” 

So it was chosen to emphasise her Britishness, her position as a future Princess of Wales, and her love of the countryside and nature.