At Osu Castle on Saturday, it was especially important to me, as indeed it was on my first visit there 41 years ago, that I should acknowledge the most painful chapter of Ghana’s relations with the nations of Europe, including the United Kingdom.
The appalling atrocity of the slave trade, and the unimaginable suffering it caused, left an indelible stain on the history of our world.
Tag: quotes
Rallies like we saw in 2017 [in Charlottesville] are not the way of the future. The way of the future is attacks like what we saw with one guy in a van allegedly sending pipe bombs.
It was amazing how many people spent their whole lives in places where they never intended to stay.
You need someone who wants to be there when it’s messy and when it’s hard, not just when it’s fun and when it’s convenient. And you need someone who chooses you when it might not be the easiest choice. And you need someone who would rather do nothing with you than anything in the world with someone else.
Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth.
(via books-n-quotes)
Theory makes you desire mastery: you hope that theoretical reading will give you the concepts to organize and understand the phenomena that concern you. But theory makes mastery impossible, not only because there is always more to know, but, more specifically and more painfully, because theory is itself the questioning of presumed results and the assumptions on which they are based. The nature of theory is to undo, through a contesting of premisses and postulates, what you thought you knew, so the effects of theory are not predictable. You have not become master, but neither are you where you were before. You reflect on your reading in new ways. You have different questions to ask and a better sense of the implications of the questions you put to works you read.
(via ecrituria)
When you don’t share your problems, you resent hearing the problems of other people.
Each of us wages a private battle each day between the grand fantasies we have for ourselves and what actually happens.
If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up, it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.
The only way to master love is to practice love. You don’t need to justify your love, you don’t need to explain your love; you just need to practice your love. Practice creates the master.
Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.
(via goodreadss)
Stop trying to change someone who doesn’t want to change. Stop giving chances to someone who abuses your forgiveness. Stop running back to the place where your heart ran from. Stop trusting their words and ignoring their actions. Stop breaking your own heart.
The disabled athlete pushed boundaries, “overcomes disability,” and is often used as inspiration porn for the abled. “What’s your excuse?” they superimpose over a picture of an attractive young woman with a single lower leg prosthetic.
Disabled athletes are used (wittingly or not) as symbols of personal responsibility and determination. This fits into broader cultural ideals promoting individualism, and not accommodating disability. This is where I point out that most of the amputee athletes in these inspirational pictures are wearing prosthetic running blades that cost $15-18,000 each.
Give people time. Give people space. Don’t beg anyone to stay. Let them roam. What’s meant for you will always be yours.
The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it – basically because you feel good, very good, when you are near or with them.
When something bothered me, I didn’t talk with anyone about it. I thought it over all by myself, came to a conclusion, and took action alone. Not that I really felt lonely. I thought that’s just the way things are. Human beings, in the final analysis, have to survive on their own.
Sometimes the greatest act of love is to walk away so that the other person can find their true self and direction again.
(via deeplifequotes)
Kill the part of you that believes it can’t survive without someone else.
You don’t get better on the days when you feel like going. You get better on the days when you don’t want to go, but you go anyway. If you can overcome the negative energy coming from your tired body or unmotivated mind, you will grow and become better. It won’t be the best workout you have, you won’t accomplish as much as what you usually do when you actually feel good, but that doesn’t matter. Growth is a long term game, and the crappy days are more important.
First best is falling in love. Second best is being in love. Least best is falling out of love. But any of it is better than never having been in love.
Part of the reason the Kavanaugh news cycle has been such a flashpoint—part of the reason that so many conservatives have fanatically defended his right to have hypothetically committed the crime he’s been accused of, and that so many women have been spending the last two weeks in a haze of resurfaced trauma—is that it illuminates the centrality of sexual assault in the matrix of male power in America. In high schools, in colleges, at law schools, and in the halls of Washington, men perform for one another and ascend to positions of power. Watching it happen is a deadening reminder, for victims of sexual assault and harassment, that, in many cases, you were about as meaningful as a chess piece, one of a long procession of objects in the lifelong game that men play with other men.
Don’t lose a woman that has seen your flaws and still loves you.
Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt.
Creativity takes courage.
Good people are like candles; they burn themselves up to give others light.
(via purplebuddhaquotes)
Be careful who you call your friends. I’d rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies.
(via purplebuddhaquotes)
All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.
(via purplebuddhaquotes)
Ancient lovers believed a kiss would literally unite their souls, because the spirit was said to be carried in one’s breath.
“If I have learned anything in this long life of mine, it is this: in love we find out who we want to be; in war we find out who we are.”
— Kristin Hannah, The Nightingale
(via books-n-quotes)
Wait for the person who pursues you. The one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical. The kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person.
If we are the same person before and after we love, that means we haven’t loved enough.
You’ve got to invest in the world, you’ve got to read, you’ve got to go to art galleries, you’ve got to find out the names of plants. You’ve got to start to love the world and know about the whole genius of the human race. We’re amazing people.
Because when something happens, she’s the person I want to tell. The most basic indicator of love.
People who need help sometimes look a lot like people who don’t need help.
If you can love someone with your whole heart, even one person, then there’s salvation in life. Even if you can’t get together with that person.
Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.
When everything is easy one quickly gets stupid.
In life, finding a voice is speaking and living the truth. Each of you is an original. Each of you has a distinctive voice. When you find it, your story will be told. You will be heard.
The hardest battle you will ever have to fight is between who you are now and who you want to be.
Probably the closest things to perfection are the huge absolutely empty holes that astronomers have recently discovered in space. If there’s nothing there, how can anything go wrong?
Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh, who help you when you’re in need. People who genuinely care. They are the ones worth keeping in your life. Everyone else is just passing through.
I believe we have an obligation to read for pleasure, in private and in public places. If we read for pleasure, if others see us reading, then we learn, we exercise our imaginations. We show others that reading is a good thing.
Most people carry that pain around inside them their whole lives, until they kill the pain by other means, or until it kills them. But you, my friends, you found another way: a way to use the pain. To burn it as fuel, for light and warmth. You have learned to break the world that has tried to break you.
I think there are pieces of yourself that you will always guard.
Anything that gets your blood racing is probably worth doing.
All human beings were of course unique, and they only discovered that when someone else fell in love with them or when no one ever fell in love with them.
When you are attracted to people, it’s because of the details. Their kindness. Their eyes. The fact that they can get you to laugh when you need it the most.
There are plenty of things in the world to be sad about. But a boy who doesn’t love you shouldn’t be one of them.
If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.
Si no estás dispuesto a cambiar, entonces no esperes que tu vida cambie tampoco.