“Now that Omid has drawn our attention to Harry’s brand new African bracelet, what are the chances we see Megs rocking a similar one to hush up the rumours? Lol” The question is WHY would Omid draw attention to Harry’s new bracelet and HOW would Omid know about it? Meg is/was his intel source. Why would MEG want Harry’s indiscretion exposed/alluded to? Her press tantrum last week makes a lot more sense now.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Oh, that’s a good point. He may have seen it in the pics, though.

Did you get that DM article about why M wears pink? One of the reasons is that it sub-consciously shows how happy she is and how IN LOVE she is with PH. Yeah, right.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

anonymoushouseplantfan:

I love this. So they are saying she wasn’t “in love” until she got the title?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-5891783/Why-Meghan-Markle-wears-pink-royal.html

Ha! Vogue Paris let the cat out of the bag. The pink articles are a press release.

When I see an old movie, like from the ’40s or ’50s or ’60s, the people look so calm. They don’t have smart phones, they’re not looking at computer screens, they’re taking their time. They’ll sit in a chair and just stare off into space. I think some day we’ll find our way back to that garden of Eden.

Rudy Rucker (via quotemadness)

I think the usual haters are expecting William to actually say something wrong but since it did not happened they have to criticized the itinerary. They want to deny it was a successful trip for William.

duchessofostergotlands:

Yep. And I’ve never really understood that. I don’t like lots of people but I can recognise when they make important contributions or do something nice. I’m not a Harry fan but Invictus is great. I’m not an Andrew fan but he’s helped a lot of people with Pitch@ the Palace. I’m not a fan of Edward but he works really hard for the DofE award. People aren’t black and white, good or bad, nice or mean. It’s fair enough not to like someone but to assume that means you automatically have to disagree with everything they have done or will do is so narrow minded. The itinerary was decided by the host with input and approval from KP as it always is so issues with it are things to take up with the FCO and Israel/Palestine/Jordan themselves but purely on performance he surpassed my expectations and I am incredibly pleased with his work. I say that as a British taxpayer, which according to the history of this fandom gives me the power to veto anyone’s opinions 😉

VANITY FAIR: “What It Costs to Dress Like Meghan Markle: An Investigation” … Another CYA article stressing that, according to TV-fashion expert Mark Heyes, “it’s quite important for the Duchess of Sussex to be wearing couture especially at this point in her life. This is all brand new and the eyes of the world are on her. Couture will have been specifically made for her so she’s going to look a million dollars.” Yeah. OK.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

They used the same rationale for Kate’s expenses, but this is about 10 times what Kate spent. Kate is the future Queen. There is no reason why Meghan should be spending hundreds of thousands of dollars more than Kate.

DM ”The accounts DO NOT COVER May’s royal wedding but do include the five-month period after Harry and Meghan announced their engagement in November”..£1.5milions this year/+wedding costs + MM new wardrobe(Tour)+ H&M lifestyle,Next year £10 Millions

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Holy mother of mercy. So that was just for the “regional tour”? 1.5 M?????

LOLOLOLOLOL, that was BEFORE all the couture. It’s a fraction of what she has actually cost.

I have a question for you. In all this time, and it’s been 2 years and some change since they got together, there have been thousands of articles written and an interview or two given. Question: has M EVER been quoted as saying these words (or using a variation of his name): “I love Prince Harry.” The closest thing is that vomit inducing “We’re in love and we’re a couple!” I’m talking flat out: “**I** love Harry.”? For someone who loves to talk about herself, I can’t find such a sentence.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

She recently said “he’s the best husband.” I think maybe it was the Chester engagement?

Well, she doesn’t really love him all that much. The jewelry, however, she definitely loves.

Was it like that with Kate.. like was she this invisible after her marriage? Were all her appearances documented like crazy for days? It seems like with markle the press waits with baited breath for her next engagement and the days that shes not out its just endless articles on her nonsense.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Do you mean “visible” instead of “invisible”? Because Will and Kate were EVERYWHERE in 2011.

My recollection of the Cambridge’s first year is that they would disappear for weeks and then we’d get some ridiculously high-profile huge-press event like meeting the Obamas or touring the US or Kate having a solo gala. The DM has a summary of their first year.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2135065/Kate-Middleton-Prince-Williams-year-marriage-looked-on.html 

There was a ton of coverage of everything they did (including mundane stuff like shopping or talking walks), and they were credited with re-invigorating the monarchy.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/prince-william-kate-middleton-year-marriage-reinvigorated-fading-luster-royals-article-1.1065498

The Canada tour had so much coverage that even the reporter were complaining.

http://newsfeed.time.com/2011/07/05/royal-rivalry-prince-william-trounces-kate-in-canadian-dragon-boat-race/

I remember there was a lot of curiosity about their personal lives–honeymoon, house, shopping, Lupo, date nights, relationship with the Middletons, Kate’s shopping trips to London. Also, Kate’s fashion had a ton of coverage. The beige Reiss dress she wore to meet the Obamas, in particular, was a sensation.

Even their first anniversary dinner was a source of huge speculation.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2137129/Kate-Pippa-Middleton-attend-friends-big-day-year-royal-wedding.html

The main difference I see between the way the couples are/were covered by the press is that with Will and Kate there was HUGE interest in their interactions and private life. Everyone wanted to know what the cottage looked like, how they interacted with each other, what Kate was cooking, what the dog’s name was, etc… There was also a ton of interest in Kate’s clothes, organic interest and not just People mag trying to sell beach cover-ups.

With the Slutsexes, there’s more interest in how Meghan is handling the royal protocol than anything else. The “fish out of water” aspect of it is taking over. Will and Kate didn’t have that kind of coverage, mainly because Kate had been part of “The Windsor Show” for so long that her official intro was seamless. 

Looking back the Cambridge’s first year, what strikes me is how “fresh” their appearances were–with the Obamas at the palace, in the Canadian wilderness, playing polo in LA, playing with kids. They really looked like a young couple who were having fun and putting a new spin on what it meant to be royal. In contrast, Meghan in her off-color pantyhose and 80s Diana outfits is already looking like a Madame Tussaud’s wax figure. Actually, the official was figure looks younger than Meghan right now.

From that aritcle: “There will of course be engagements in the future in which hand holding and affection is perfectly acceptable, but tonight, in the presence of the Queen, the couple showed the dignity and respect such an occasion affords.” Sure. They can explain it away like that. But just the fact that they even felt like they had to explain says a lot. People are noticing that something’s different and something’s off. You can’t go full on tentacle hands and then suddenly stop.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

This is the problem with having pda as your “signature.”

Many people have been calling her a “Stepford Wife” in the DM comments and on Gary J. Other descriptions are: sex doll, robot, wax figure, and mannequin.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

There was something very weird about the way she behaved during that engagement. Apparently, Harry got in from Africa at 6 am and he still looked more awake than she did. Trigger warning for scary Meghan picture on this link, guys. 

https://us.hellomagazine.com/royalty/2018062749766/meghan-markle-reveals-prince-harry-6am-wakeup-call/

Those are some dead eyes:

Meghan Markle isn’t the style rebel fans hoped she’d be — and that’s okay

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Vox, of all outlets, has an apologia on Meghan’s crap style. It’s apparently supposed to signal that she belongs. I think the elements Meghan has chosen–80s stylings, color coordination to a ridiculous extent, mismatched designer flourishes–actually does the exact opposite.

Meghan Markle isn’t the style rebel fans hoped she’d be — and that’s okay

Aside of thinking that W&K genuinely love each other, and H&M not, I think it was a smart choice of W&K not to show PDA in official engagements. Being ‘neutral and professional’ in public makes it harder for the press to speculate about their relationships. But H&M are always glue to each other, so of course when they don’t, people and press 1) give excuses explaining why 2) speculate about problems in heaven. And people will start to notice when things go wrong. Not a very smart move, imo.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Yep.

Regarding mirroring Diana’s facial expressions – there is something there. A certain fetching look that is part natural but certainly played up. I’m sure Harry sees it and it plays to his subconscious.

anonymoushouseplantfan:

I’m not sure it’s mirroring per se but Meghan has, like that article said, a very “child-like” way of presenting herself–lots of giggling and “oh gosh” expressions and stuff like that. It’s a bit off-putting on someone who is 36 yrs old.

Diana did something similar with her doe eyes and whispery voice. It was charming when she was young, but it started to look manipulative when she got older. The Panorama interview and the Diana tapes are perfect examples of it.

Submitted: Meghan’s insecurities

keepingupwiththebananadrama:

anonymoushouseplantfan:

Yesterday i had randomly come across an online article that talked about how in some situations PDA can mean bad things for a relationship and it got me thinking about Harry and Meghan. The article talked about how even sometimes PDA posts on social media can show that the poster has insecurities about the relationship. I thought about all the clues Meghan was leaving on her instagram and even though she never flat out shared a pic of them kissing it was basically the same thing just more discreet. If she really felt secure and in love with Harry she wouldn’t need to do silly things like that. It wasn’t just her seeking attention imo, she needed the relationship validated somehow. Some quotes from the article: “Exorbitant posting of seemingly positive status may be a thin veil to obscure the real problem: insecurity.”

“The same study concluded that the more times that a partner feels insecure about his partner’s feelings, he tends to make their relationship more visible online. The goal is to compensate by making others who are online feel that everything in the relationship is going smoothly. The more “likes” and other positive comments people receive with regards to their relationships, the more they feel convinced and reassured of the relationship.”

“the more the relationship is secure, the more that the couple would want to keep it private and sacred.”

Meghan leaking constantly about how “perfect” their relationship is, is the equivalent of social media posts. When she had Jess go and fetch her that initial necklace so she could be photographed in it,making everyone believe Harry got it for her and all the times she just had to be photographed with the silly bracelet. It wasn’t for attention because everyone already knew they were together, she was doing it out feelings of insecurity in the relationship. I believe Meghan is the insecure one in the relationship and not Harry. That is why she clings to Harry and when they hold hands she always initiates it. She is extremely insecure about their relationship so she overcompensates in front of the cameras. She needs the world to believe that everything in their relationship is perfect because she knows it’s not. I wouldn’t be surprised if she knew Harry was sleeping with other women when they first starting seeing each other and that’s what made her feel the need to run to the press to reassure herself and the entire world how perfect they are together and how head over hills in love Harry is with her. 

I could be totally wrong on this and it’s just my opinion.


Thanks for sending this in! This is a perfectly valid opinion. It would also explain all of the “wonderful Meghan” and “Queen approves” press.

Yup. Harry is going to be the one to drop her. Based on everything seen tonight, he seems done with some of her previous antics of looking super loved up at royal functions tonight. Even if he’s not over her yet, I have no doubt he will be shortly. 

I agree with some of the things you said but I am not sure how you can slap/blame Harry for the Markles issue?

keepingupwiththebananadrama:

It took me a moment to figure out what you were talking about. Are you aware all of this markle daddy issue crap could’ve been avoided if they made an effort to actually see him. She could’ve at least went to go see her dad in person before leaking her own showmance. But because they are so desperate to stay woke, relevant, young, and diverse the only person they made an effort to have physical and public contact with was her mother. Who got her narrative of being a poc. Her father was extremely silent up until the engagement. So why wasn’t he shown the same helping hand? Why was he only given a phone call here and there? It’s one thing to hear over the phone dont talk to so and so, it’s another to physically be there in person expressing your concern and making things clear. And harry is somewhat at fault because if he is as controlling as her PR is making him out to be he should’ve said handle this crap in person or else it will bite you in the ass after the wedding. But that’s just my opinion.